 Whoooo hoooo Mamma, here we go….The Spring Equinox kick starts Aries season and the beginning of the Astrological year.
The Sun sits at zero degrees, which us star gazers call the Aries Point. It’s ripe n juicy with more than a dash of bravado. It’s a little - or a lot - in your face. And it’s …hopeful. As I look out my window I see bunches of daffodils springing ( pardon the pun ) up everywhere. They’re wild and happy. They bring such joy and I want to go play and sing born free whenever I see them. They’re hard to ignore. Aries is the infant of the zodiac. It’s numero uno. Sass pants. Aries rules the Self. Although we won’t truly get to experience the season of the Ram until its April 1st New Moon, now is the perfect time to map out where best to place your energies. Remember, thoughts and words are spells. Where ensures maximum growth? Are you fearful or complacent? Have you compromised yourself or overcompensated? Because Aries doesn’t take crap from anyone. It’s the part of you that tells bullies to step off, gets you out of bed in the morning, works tirelessly towards a goal, fights for and protects what it loves. It’s the part of you that whispers or screams …” I will not abandon myself, I will not abandon myself, I will not abandon myself. “ ❤️🩹 We all have Aries somewhere in our charts. Find it and you find yourself, battle scars n all. Don’t you dare look away. You’re fecking magnificent. Wishing you all an amazing, safe, joyful and healthy new Astro Year. Go find your smile. Xoxo
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 I had a client say recently “ please don’t judge me “, before explaining a totally natural predicament. The vulnerability in their voice was touching.
Fun fact…psychics are people too. Anyone who really knows me knows my determined, deeply private side and the need to do it all by myself. I hate asking for help. HATE IT. They also know of my potty mouth which has been heard across 5 continents. As my grandma would say I “ could make a bullocky blush”. Look, we all eff up. Everyone. Daily. Like when I was new to Zoom and got my hand caught in a drawer. I mean really caught, like breaking my hand kinda caught along with ALL the appropriate language. All whilst my lovely client was patiently sitting there privy to the shite show. Or the time I was so bloody tired from being up all night with infant twins that I forgot I’d read for the lady in front of me like ohhhhhh, about 5 times already. Smooooooth Deb. Even the most spiritual / learned / intellectual amongst us are still having a human experience. That’s what we signed up for…yeah? The trip up comes when you don’t allow for any flaws within yourself ( good luck with that ) or get nice and comfy on your pedestal by judging or critiquing another’s life. None of us are without flaws. Strive for excellence. Perfection? Doesn’t exist. What I can promise is complete honesty with you about anything that is coming through or just in general for that matter. I will not tell you things that I don’t see/ hear / feel. I will not bullshite you. You will have my full and undivided attention. I will show up completely. All I ask is for you to do the same. To show up. Completely, sans B.S. And watch the conversation bloom. And P.S. …Judgement doesn’t sit at this table. Have a great week m’lovelies. Xoxo Pic via Unsplash  A few days ago, on the 18th of February, we took a dip into Pisces season. This marks the wrapping up of the Astrological year.
Pisces is the final sign before the rebirth that accompanies the time of Aries on March the 20th, the Vernal Equinox and beginning of Spring here in the Northern Hemisphere. So it’s a fab time to nut out what needs to be released, brought to a close and removed in order for fresh life to emerge. The surrender. Pisces echoes the stillness and depths of the 12th house in the chart. It is the slice of pie where our intuition, secrets, emotion and fear reside. It is the place that gives us rest, meditation and peace. Our soul lives here. So use this time wisely. Replenish your Spirit, commune with nature, clear out the clunky clutter. Neptune is co ruler of Pisces and the King of the Ocean. Imagine yourself immersing completely in its healing waters, only to emerge cleansed, refreshed and ready to take on a new astrological year. Maybe even let out a little squeal. I always do. Enjoy taking the plunge! Have a beautiful week. xoxo via Avery Cocozziello Unsplash  The best thing about being psychic?
Being able to see, hear and feel the undercurrents of a place, situation and of a person. To see compassion in someone’s heart, warmth in their eyes, beauty within. Even when it’s not immediately apparent. The worst thing about being psychic? Being able to see, hear and feel the undercurrents of a place, situation and of a person. To see a lack of compassion in someone’s heart, coldness in their eyes, callousness within. Even when it’s not immediately apparent. It’s a double edged sword you see? But one which I wield with profound gratitude. For this path has been very, very long fought and incredibly hard won. It is a part of my essence. My light. And a persons essence, soul or Spirit is something which cannot be taken. Only given with their permission. Find what brings you joy. And closer to your essence. Celebrate what makes you uniquely you. Curate your life to reflect that. We only get one shot at this incarnation. Honour it. Have a gorgeous week m’lovelies. xoxo  Can you feel change flowing towards you? Courage rising like a tide within?
Welcome to the Year of the Black Water Tiger. From Feb 1, 2022 to Jan 21, 2023 we have this powerful animal overseeing all, lending it’s vitality and strength to those who choose to embrace it’s gifts. Although the first day of the Chinese Spring isn’t until February 4, the energy being ushered in is one of innovation, growth and creation. It is likened to a birth, or rebirth, and with careful planning and leaving our egos firmly planted in the previous year, can yield the taking hold of an idea, beginnings of a business or a peak in artistic and technological ventures. Design also features heavily. The Tiger in Chinese mythology is considered the King of all beasts and one which expels all evil. This can get right up some peoples noses. No matter. The Apex Feline is vital, altruistic and willing to walk it’s own path. Water brings contemplation, calm and the ability to simply observe. To reflect upon that which is your environment. It is emotion and imagination. Through quiet meditation and truthfully asking yourself “ Who am I? “ you can gain a significant renewal of your focus, determination and life force. Don’t be afraid to express yourself authentically. It is your birthright. Bookmark February 18 when between the hours of 3 and 5 am it will be the hour, day, month and year of the Black Water Tiger. A great day to get super clear on and welcome in that which gives your life more wealth. Literally and metaphorically. More power to you. xoxo  I went for a walk yesterday and it was coooooold!! But it was so good to just get out and have it envelop me. To hear the crunch of the frozen ground underfoot.
We often hear people saying that they hate this season or can’t stand that season. But each has something to offer. For without the contrast one never really gets to appreciate them fully. It’s like life hey? We are so hell bent on and conditioned to stay in the Spring/ Summer of our lives without realising the power that is Autumn and the wisdom of Winter. And their beauty. We can’t have one without the other. They’re all related and have the joy and gifts that only that season can give. I hope that wherever you are, you are making the most of what nature and life has to offer. To be fully present in what surrounds you. Here is a pic of my - freezing! - moment. Love D xoxo  As we enter this New Year, there is so much talk and expectation of change.
But in order to truly embrace a different way of being, we must first let go of the safe, the tried - or in many cases - tired and maybe not so true for you anymore. Change is scary and uncertain but essential for growth. It sharpens our senses and our wits. It inspires courage and allows us to bloom the way we were meant to. When something is worth it, there is always risk. I’ve started calling our two little ones Dos Oruguitas - two caterpillars - after the beautiful song of the same name from Encanto. We catch glimpses daily of the butterflies they are transforming into. I always get goosebumps listening to it. Wonders surround you Just let the walls come down Don’t look behind you Fly till you find Your way toward tomorrow What is within you that burns for, yearns for, change? So much so that you’re prepared to be uncomfortable to bring it forth in your life? With enough preparation and a brave heart, anything, and I mean, literally anything, is possible. Good luck!  Here’s a wee ritual I do come New Year. Thought I’d share. I look to the past, the year that is gone. I look to myself within the course of that year, knowing what’s done is done. The high’s, the low’s, absolutely everything that version of me experienced, right down to the breath that ran through my lungs, energising my very cells. And I thank her for carrying me through, giving thanks to my lessons and loves. I see her standing there in all of her flaws and magnificence. And I let go of her hand. I. Let. Go. I touch my face and my heart. I am here in the present. I listen to my breath. For in this moment, I am still. I am grateful for all I have and count my blessings. I gather my courage and embrace the light that envelops me. Warms me. I turn to the door that lies ahead. Beyond it is the pathway to tomorrow. The journey of what will come to make up my life. I take a deep breath, merging completely with my surrounds, listening intently and drinking it all in. A horse approaches. Whenever I see a horse I know that freedom awaits. I jump on and together we ride the pathway ahead. We gallop like the wind and I move in close as to not fall and place my head upon its strong neck. We release all tendrils of a past that no longer serves my soul or, in which fact, never did. My spirit animal, the tiger ( for she is etched upon my back ) - but for you it could be anything or anyone - makes herself known. She sets me free of any energy that wants to keep me down, head bowed, brought to my knees. She is my guardian. I go into the future knowing that I am safe, protected and by Goddess, powerful. Trust that your future self will be there to support, strengthen and carry you. For they have lived, learned and loved longer than you. Step forward into the rest of your life with bright eyes and an open heart. You made it. You are still here. What a bloody miracle. You. Are. Still. Here. A peaceful, prosperous and joyful adventure for you all in 2022. With love from me to you. Xxx By the way - I do this to music as it’s a balm for the soul is it not? This year it was to Outlander, Season 1, Volume 1, Dance of the Druids. www.deborahmenderin.com Pic via Michael Anfang and Ralph Mayhew    Just a quick hello to say I’m still here!
Been spending the summer, literally stopping and smelling the roses, meditating, exercising and reading - people as well as books, tee hee. Am in the process of waiting for something to transpire, something which I’ve wanted for the longest time. So, whenever you find yourself in inbetween land, do as the above meme wisely says. Tend to the daily rituals of life, walk the earth, observe. Learn to be in the waiting without anxiety. Embrace faith and anchor into the here and now. For everything changes and change it must. Perfect musings for the current Virgo season. If you’re curious of what’s to come, I’m here and available. Be good to you! Xoxo I have had a really hard time finding my voice in this world. There were moments, many of them along the way, where it was easier, safer, to retract and just observe, to watch human nature unravelling before me. My silence made me very good at reading others. But then I found my voice. It came and it scattered people to the four corners. No, I am not who you say I am. You don’t get to tell that story anymore. Not without it being interrupted. Challenged. And there it was. I was shaken. But took up more space. It freed me. And it’s been with me ever since.  |
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